AI companion bots and Discord integrations for adults: what is official

Of the 15 services on our recommended list, only one, Kindroid, publishes its own Discord bot, and since October 22, 2026 that bot is in maintenance mode for existing users. Three more, Secrets AI, GirlfriendGPT and CrushOn, connect your Discord account to their web app but keep the chat on their own site. Everything else you will find under "NSFW Discord bot" is either a brand's community server or a third-party bot we could not verify.

That is a short list, and we kept it short on purpose. A bot in a Discord server reads what everyone in the channel types, runs on someone's server, and may be operated by a person with no link to the brand whose name it uses.

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The criterion for this page is narrow: an official Discord bot, or an official Discord integration documented by the brand itself. A Discord invite link on a homepage does not count. Most companion apps have a community server for news and support, and a server is not a bot.

What we checked on October 23, 2026:

• Homepages, footers and help pages of the 15 services on our recommended list, looking for Discord links, bot documentation and API pages.
• Developer documentation where it exists: Kindroid's API documentation and its GitHub repository, Nomi's API docs, the Secrets AI wiki, the Chub AI docs and the Janitor AI help center.
• Discord's own rules: the Community Guidelines (last updated August 29, 2025), the Sexual Content Policy Explainer, the Age-Restricted Content Policy and the February 9, 2026 announcement about teen-by-default settings.

We did not install or run any Discord bot for this page; everything below comes from public pages. Prices come from each brand's public pages on the same date. Where a brand does not publish a USD price, we say so.

OurDream, SpicyChat, HammerAI and Xoul AI are not included while we re-check their catalogs and policies (Oct 2026).

Third-party bots that "bring" a brand's characters into Discord are left out, even when they work. Unless the brand documents a bot as its own, you cannot tell who runs it, where your messages go or what happens to the API key you paste into it.

Kindroid's API documentation lists a dedicated endpoint "used in the Kindroid Discord bot" and links to the bot's code on Kindroid's own GitHub account. This is the only companion brand on our list with a bot it calls its own.

How it works: you do not invite a ready-made bot from a directory. You create a Discord application yourself, copy its token, and run Kindroid's open-source Node.js service on your own machine or server with your Kindroid API key and a share code for the companion. Each Discord bot you create is tied to one Kindroid persona, and the service pulls roughly the last 30 messages of the channel as context.

What you need to know before you start:

• The Discord bot endpoint "requires an active subscription." Without one, Kindroid's API works only while the free preview lasts.
• Requests are capped at 10 per 30 seconds per account, and the same cap applies to each Discord user who triggers the bot.
• The service has a configurable NSFW filter, so the server owner decides whether adult replies are allowed in that deployment.
• On October 22, 2026 the README switched to maintenance mode: "This project is kept running for existing users only. We are not adding features, and we don't offer setup support for new deployments." Bots that already use it keep working.

Kindroid's legal terms limit the service to people who are at least 18 (or the age of majority where they live). Its moderation guidelines allow adult roleplay for adults, and free users can be asked to verify their age through Yoti.

Price: Kindroid does not publish USD prices. Its subscriptions page says you will see the exact price for your country and platform at checkout, and that web purchases are generally cheaper than app store purchases.

The honest minus: if you are new, you are setting up an unsupported project that needs a paid plan, a server to run on and some comfort with environment files. For most people the Kindroid app itself is the simpler route.

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The Secrets AI wiki has a page called "Discord Integration." It is clear about what it does: you connect your Discord account through Discord's sign-in, and Secrets AI gives you rewards and roles in its own server. You still chat with your companion on the Secrets AI website.

What linking gets you, according to the wiki:

• 100 bonus Moments the first time you link (Moments are the credits Secrets AI uses for media).
• Automatic role syncing: Free, Premium and Ultimate roles update when you change plans.
• Access to tier-specific channels in the Secrets AI server.
• One Discord account can be linked to only one Secrets AI account.

Price: the free plan allows 20 messages a day with no Moments and no image or video generation. Premium is $19.99 a month (or $109.99 a year) with 8,000 Moments a month and unlimited messages. Ultimate is $39.99 a month (or $319.99 a year) with 15,000 Moments, group chats and personas.

The honest minus: linking ties your Discord identity to an adult companion account. If your Discord is the same one you use with friends, family or work servers, think about whether you want those two accounts connected at all. Also note that the homepage advertises "end-to-end encryption," which the privacy policy does not describe; the policy says chats are encrypted at rest and in transit, and lists model training among the uses of data.

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GirlfriendGPT (also known as GPTGirlfriend) offers "Continue with Discord" on its sign-in screen, next to Google and email. The site also runs a community server, and its account-deletion text says you can restore a deleted account within 30 days by contacting the team on Discord.

There is no GirlfriendGPT chatbot inside Discord. Discord is a login method and a support channel; the characters live on the website.

Price: the free account is limited. The terms give the example of 2 or 3 characters and about 10 to 20 messages in total, plus credits earned through tasks. Paid plan prices appear only after sign-in, so we could not confirm them. The Terms of Use describe 5,000 to 20,000 credits a month depending on tier, and credits do not carry over.

The honest minus: signing in with Discord is convenient, but it shares your Discord identity with an adult platform. The privacy policy (last modified April 13, 2026) says personal information is usually kept for six years after you stop being a user. If that bothers you, use a separate email login instead.

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CrushOn's registration screen offers Google, Discord, SubscribeStar and email codes, with the line "By continuing, you confirm that you are at least 18 years old." Its contact page links an official Discord server. As with GirlfriendGPT, Discord is a way in, not the place where you chat: characters run on the CrushOn website, and its own pages describe no CrushOn bot inside Discord.

Price: the free plan gives unlimited access to free models and 100 message credits a month for Pro models, with 8K memory, no group chat, and chat history deleted after 7 days of inactivity. On October 23, 2026 the pricing page showed Standard at $5.99 a month and Premium at $14.99 a month, with higher Luxe, Elite and Imperial tiers.

The honest minus: registration with a disposable email is blocked, so in practice you sign up with Discord, Google or a permanent address. That pushes you toward linking a real identity. The privacy policy also allows user content to be used to train AI models.

Many of the brands we recommend link a Discord server from their own homepage. These are real, official spaces for announcements, support tickets and community chat. None of them is a companion bot you can talk to, as far as the brands' own pages show.

On October 23, 2026 we found official Discord server links on the sites of Candy AI, DreamGF, Janitor AI, CrushOn, Darlink AI, PepHop, Nectar AI and GoLove. A few details worth knowing:

• Nectar AI uses its server for support: its FAQ points you there (or to email) for account deletion, content-removal appeals and reports of suspected underage users.
• Janitor AI's help center confirms its server and subreddit, and says Discord bans are appealed separately from site bans.
• Nomi publishes an official API and runs a community server, but its own pages describe no Nomi Discord bot. The Nomi bots you may see shared online are built by third parties, so we do not list them.

If someone in one of these servers offers you a bot "for the same characters," treat it like any stranger's bot, not like the brand.

Discord allows sexual content between adults, under conditions. These are the points that matter if you plan to run or use a companion bot with adult replies.

You must be 18 or older. Rule 9 of the Community Guidelines says users "must be aged 18 or older to view, gain access to, or participate in adult sexual content on Discord." (Community Guidelines, last updated August 29, 2025.)

Explicit content belongs only in age-restricted channels. Server owners must apply the age-restricted label to any channel that hosts sexually explicit content. Places that cannot be age-gated, such as avatars, bios, banners, server icons, emojis and invite splashes, may not contain it. Content posted outside designated channels can be deleted and the poster banned. (Age-Restricted Content Policy, dated May 12, 2022 on the page; Sexual Content Policy Explainer, August 29, 2025.)

The server owner and moderators must be adults. The Sexual Content Policy Explainer says a server can host sexually explicit content only if "the server owner and moderators are all over the age of 18" and the relevant channels carry the label.

Minors are a hard line, including fiction and AI. The Community Guidelines ban content that sexualizes minors in any form, including "animation, drawing, text, and technical commands or prompts to create media depicting child sexual abuse." The Age-Restricted Content Policy adds that such content "is never allowed anywhere on Discord," age-gated channels included. Characters must be clearly adult, in description and in depiction.

No real people without consent. Rule 10 bans sharing or creating sexually explicit or suggestive content of other adults without their explicit consent. A companion bot modelled on a real person, or one that generates images of real people, breaks this rule.

Age assurance is coming for age-restricted spaces. In its February 9, 2026 announcement, Discord said all users get a teen-appropriate experience by default and "only users who are age-assured as adults will be able to access age-restricted channels, servers, and app commands." Age assurance uses on-device facial age estimation or an ID check with a vendor; Discord says most adults will not be asked because their age is inferred from existing signals. The global rollout was delayed to the second half of 2026, so what you see depends on when and where you use Discord.

A companion bot in Discord is a different privacy situation from a companion app. Before you invite one, or type into a channel where one runs:

• Everyone in the channel sees the conversation. A shared server is not a private chat. Other members can read, screenshot and quote what you and the bot say.
• The bot's operator receives your messages. Kindroid's own bot sends the recent channel messages to Kindroid's API as context. A third-party bot sends them wherever its owner decides.
• Never paste your API key into someone else's bot. If a bot asks for your Kindroid, Nomi or any other API key, it can use your account and your paid quota.
• Check permissions on the invite screen. A chat bot needs to send messages and read message history. It does not need administrator rights or the ability to manage members.
• Keep adult replies in age-restricted channels. If you run a bot with adult output, put it only in channels labelled age-restricted, in a server where you and every moderator are adults.
• Separate your identities if that matters to you. Discord logins and account linking connect your Discord profile to an adult service. A separate Discord account, or email sign-in on the web, keeps them apart.

For most adults who searched for an NSFW Discord bot, the web app of a recommended service is the better choice. Your chats stay one-to-one, the brand's own age checks and content rules apply, billing goes through the brand, and you are not trusting an unknown bot operator.

Two options from our reviews, with prices checked on October 23, 2026:

• Candy AI (/brands/candy-ai/): chat, images and voice in one browser app. About 5 free messages; Premium is $3.99 a month on the 12-month plan ($47.88 upfront), or $9.99 for the first month and then $13.99. Media uses tokens.
• Janitor AI (/brands/janitor-ai/): a community character library with unlimited standard-model chats. janitor+ costs $12.99/month or $99/year, checked October 24, 2026.

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For more choices, see /best/nsfw-ai-chat/ and /best/ai-girlfriend-apps/. For what these apps do with your chats, read /guides/ai-companion-privacy/.

Skip any bot or listing that shows one of these:

• It uses a brand's name or logo, but the brand's own site never mentions it.
• It asks you to pay inside Discord through an unknown link, or to send a gift card or crypto.
• It asks for your login, your API key or your Discord token.
• It wants administrator permissions in your server.
• It promises images of real people, celebrities or "anyone from a photo."
• It describes characters with age-ambiguous or youthful wording, or offers "no rules at all."

Is there an official NSFW Discord bot from an AI companion app?

Among the 15 services we recommend, only Kindroid publishes its own Discord bot, as open-source code you run yourself with a paid subscription. Since October 22, 2026 it is in maintenance mode: it keeps working for existing users, with no setup support for new deployments.

Does Secrets AI have a Discord bot?

No chat bot. Secrets AI has a Discord integration: you link your Discord account, get 100 bonus Moments once and an automatic role that matches your plan, which opens tier channels in its server. Chatting with your companion happens on the Secrets AI website.

Are NSFW bots allowed on Discord?

Adult sexual content is allowed only for users 18 and older, only in channels marked age-restricted, in servers where the owner and moderators are adults. Content involving minors, or sexual content of real people without consent, is banned everywhere on Discord, including fiction and AI output.

Do I need to verify my age to use an adult bot on Discord?

Possibly. Discord's February 2026 announcement says only users age-assured as adults can access age-restricted channels, servers and app commands. Most adults are inferred automatically; others may be asked for a face estimate or ID. The global rollout was delayed to the second half of 2026.

Is it safe to use a third-party bot with my Nomi or Kindroid characters?

You take on the risk yourself. A third-party bot receives your messages and usually needs your API key, which gives access to your account and paid quota. Nomi's own pages describe no official Discord bot, so we do not recommend any.